The following article cites the chapter, Sports: The Mindset of a Champion, from the Book 'Mindset' by Carol Dweck.
Character Grows Out
Of Mindset
In sports, everybody believes in talent. Sports is where the idea of ‘a natural comes
from – someone who looks like an athlete, moves like an athlete, and is an
athlete, all without trying. So great is
the belief in natural talent that many scouts and coaches only search for naturals.
But there are several examples of ‘natural’ talents who have
not panned out when facing challenges because they didn’t have the character or
mindset to deal with adversity.
There is a mindset in which people are enmeshed in the idea
of their own talent and specialness. When
things go wrong, they lose their focus and their ability, putting everything
they want in jeopardy.
There is also a mindset that helps people cope well with
setbacks, points them to good strategies, and leads them to act in their best
interest.
Having a growth mindset allows you to see mistakes,
challenges and obstacles for what they really are – opportunities for growth.
While it is a great advantage to have natural talent, it is
equally or more important to learn how to tolerate frustration and to know how
to dig down and turn an important setback into an important win.
Ever think of taking
responsibility?
Tennis player John McEnroe was supremely talented but was
also notorious for placing blame for his shortcomings and making excuses. When he would make mistakes on the court, he
would often throw fits that you would associate with small children when they
don’t get their way. Worse, he would do everything
he could to explain away failures and place blame on everything and everyone
else other than his need to be better prepared and better composed. Never did he take full responsibility and
really work to better himself. The
following quote is an excerpt from the book Mindset regarding a statement that he made blaming the ‘system’ for
letting him get away with more and more:
‘He got mad at the
system! Hi there, John, This was your
life. Ever think of taking
responsibility?
No, because in the
fixed mindset, you don’t take control of your abilities and your
motivation. You look for your talent to
carry you through, and when it doesn’t, well then what else could you have done? You are not a work in progress, you’re a
finished product. And finished products
have to protect themselves, lament, and blame.
Everything but take charge.’
In the fixed mindset, athletes want to validate their
talent. In the growth mindset, it’s
about constantly looking at ways to better themselves. When you struggle or fail at something and
you possess a fixed mindset, you tend to shut down, place blame on someone or
something else, or quit altogether. You
don’t see struggle for what it is – an opportunity for growth.
Make the decision to take charge of yourself and your potential
and don’t let excuses and obstacles deter you from your best self.
Mark O’Meara
Mark O’Meara was a golf partner and friend of Tiger
Woods. It was not easy to play next to
Tiger Woods because of his extraordinary talent and success, so O’Meara had to
make a decision: either feel jealous of and diminished by Wood’s play or learn
from it. He chose to learn from it. O’Meara was a talented golfer who never
seemed to live up to his potential, so he made the decision to take charge of
his game and turn himself around. Tiger
Woods won the Masters Tournament, and just a year later O’Meara beat Woods to
win it.
Character, Heart, the
Mind of a Champion
Character, heart, the mind of a champion. It’s what makes great athletes and it’s what
comes from the growth mindset with its focus on self-development,
self-motivation, and responsibility.
People don’t expect the impossible from you. They just want to see you use your wonderful
talent to the utmost. They just want you
to develop the skills you need to reach your goals.
Somebodies vs
Nobodies
Somebodies are not determined by whether they won or
lost. Somebodies are people who go for
it with all they have. If you go for it
with all you have, you will already be a somebody. If you work hard at something, you will get
out of it what you put it.
Athletes with a growth mindset find success in learning and
improving, not just winning. The more
you can do this, the more rewarding sports will be for you – and for those
around you.
Character is an important concept in sports and in life, and
it comes out of the growth mindset.
Think about times you have hit a wall in something and you need to reach
deep down inside to overcome it. What
could you do to make sure you’re in the growth mindset in the pinch?
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