Schools
and businesses are run by a set of middle class norms, expectations, and hidden
rules. For all kids to have success in
the classroom, it is important that they know and can follow these rules, and
these hidden rules don’t naturally exist in the homes and lives of many of our
students. We have to be prepared and
equipped to teach those hidden rules to our students so that they can be
successful in school and in business as they get older.
The notes below are from the book, A Framework for Understanding Poverty, by Ruby K. Payne.
Poverty of Resources
Poverty can be defined by a
lack of resources. These resources are more than just financial
and many are more important than financial resources. When there is a
lack in any of the resources below, it will be difficult for students (and
adults) to become and be their best self:
What kind of resources?
1 - Financial (money)
2 - Emotional (grit)
3 - Mental (intelligence)
4 - Spiritual (purpose)
5 - Physical (health)
6 - Support Systems (family and
friends)
7 - Relationships (Role Models)
8 - Knowledge of Hidden Rules
(expectations)
Financial - Having
enough money to purchase goods and services.
Emotional - Being
able to choose and control emotional responses through stamina perseverance and
choices.
Mental - Having
the mental ability and skills.
Spiritual - Belief
that help can come from a higher power. Belief in something bigger than
yourself.
Physical - A capable
and mobile body.
Support Systems - Having
back up when you need it.
Relationships/Role Models - All
individuals have role models, but how nurturing and appropriate are they?
Knowledge of Hidden Rules - Hidden
rules exist for each class, each gender, each culture and all other units of
people and they cue whether or not a person does or doesn't fit into a
particular group. There are hidden rules about food, dress, decorum, etc
that must be taught and learned.
Often we try to prescribe the
same speeches, medicine and consequences to all students to fit our personal
norms and expectations. We have to understand that schools and business
are ran by middle-class norms and expectations, and we can't assume that all of
our students (and teachers) come from and live those expectations every
day. We have to teach, reteach and model those expectations from the very
first day and through the very last day.
When we are working with students
(or adults) who are struggling and needing help, we should first make sure that
we have effectively taught and modelled expected behaviors and
then analyze their resources, or lack thereof.
If we have NOT clearly and
effectively taught, communicated and modelled expected behavior, that is where
we need to start.
From there, we must make sure
that we are addressing their individual needs (without sacrificing the learning
environment for all).
Each individual is different,
especially when you consider their different demographics. The more you
know about a person’s available resources, the better guidance that you can
provide for them.
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