Instead of transferring or quitting, MJ just kept pushing and working. He was allowed to travel to the varsity games, but he had to either pay for a ticket or carry the jerseys to get in the games.
COACH HERRING WAS THE FIRST ONE TO SEE IN ME
WHAT I SAW IN MYSELF.
Over the course of the season, MJ would work out with his coach every morning at 6:30. They would work on shooting, ball-handling, and play 1 on 1 for an hour before school. MJ's coach made a big poster with all of the drills listed, and they would go through them every day. He said that most days he enjoyed it, but some days he didn't feel like going. Those were the days that his coach had to push him.
MOST DAYS I ENJOYED IT.
SOME DAYS I DIDN'T FEEL LIKE GOING.
BUT THOSE WERE THE DAYS COACH HERRING WOULD PUSH ME.
Jordan said that as he got better, his confidence grew. He said that he was like a sponge, and when he got a glimpse of what success looked like, his blood started rushing. All he wanted to do was to improve and get better.
The process is tough. It is full of ups and downs. But the one thing that has to be consistent is the work ethic. Michael Jordan and his coach created a plan. They had a set time, and they had a list of drills. Set your goals, create your own plan, and execute. And find someone who can hold you accountable and push you when you need to be pushed and pull you when you need to be pulled.
For more information, check out Driven From With by Michael Jordan.
Positive "Pushing" by a good coach/parent is done in a way that shows belief that one can do it! It usually shows a way, not just a teardown of the individual. It is a map to improve. The way you comment is very important. The way builds confidence in oneself to handle the ups and downs. There are so many 14 year olds that have potential and it gets roadblocked by poor coaching. Teaching the athlete the difference of potential and what can be if you combine work with it.
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